Ignorance is my new best friend

            Sad to say, but it is true. I cant help to be in this teriible, crabby, bad attitude kinda way lately. I CAN say im blessed with a great husband, awesome family, and I know GOD. Yet still not everything is sugar and spice.
            First off, we live in the upstairs of my grandparents house. You may say there is nothing wrong with this and really if you say that then you have clearly never lived in the upstairs off your grandparnets house at 22 years old. Let me eloborate. These are just a few things that wre wrong:

1. Knocks every 10 minutes at your door for the sole purpose to annoy you.
2. We cant go out to eat or have a date night without checking in with my granny to tell her that we are going out and not to cook a bunch (even without us here she cooks the same exact amount, but if you dont inform her, you wont hear the end of it)
3. You look in the bathroom to see you need to wash laundry. You go to the washing machine to see that someone else is washing and has 5 more loads to do.
4. Even though when you have been living in a smoke filled house you get immune to the smell, you still manage to have a killer migraine everyday from all of the ciggerette smoke. Not to mention when you go to a hotel to spend the night if you bring one suitcase from your home, when you return from dinner out you will discover the whole entire room now smells of smoke. Also, everywhere you go people say "I didnt know you smoked" UGH!
5. My granny lets me know things I am doing wrong, even though before she alerts me she ALWAYS says "Now im not trying to be your boss, but......"
6. I can never walk out of the house without a jacket on in the fall/winter, even to take the dogs out (which takes all of 2 minutes) because if 2 weeks from now I have a cold I will be told every waking hour "I told you that you need to wear a jacket"
7. My grandparents like to keep it on 78 degrees in the summer, I dont know about everyone else, but thats insanley HOT for summertime!

            Dont get me wrong, I appreciate my grandparents greatly for letting us live with them for over a year now, but there comes a point when you want to get romantic with your husband and cant because you can hear your grandmother coughing, and lets face it if you can hear her then she can hear you. My husband and I have been living here now for a year and a half and we are both EXTREMELY ready to be on our own. The thing stopping us, money. There is never enough. Maybe if we could move out on our own my mother wouldnt have to ask me every day "Have you started your period Jennifer?"....and ME:"Yes mom"....HER: "Dang!". I mean I think we are both so ready to start a family. I know im still young, but I see all these people my age with kids and I envy them. I want that too. I know, babies are hard work. I do realize that. But im almost 23 and it takes 9 months to form. My husband is almost 24. I mean we are both ready! I guess all we can do is pray and hope that soon it works out that we can afford our own place. These are the plus's to being on your own:

1. You can walk around naked anywhere you want!
2. You can cook whatever you want, whenever you want
3. You are your own boss and no one else tells you how you need to do things
4. If I want to leave a plate in the sink without washing it that night, so be it.
5. We no longer have to control our sexual splurges.....Just sayin'
6. If I want to wear booty shorts and a tank outside while taking my dogs pee and catch a cold in the process, then by golly I will.
7. PEACE AND QUITE
8. No one knocking on our door asking if they can watch the netflix movie with us

What else is there to say, you get my drift. Im ready to have our own place. So, please Lord read this:) Im waiting for your repsonse:)